We arrived in Medina, and there was the Messenger of Allah ﷺ standing on the pulpit addressing the people. He was saying, "The hand of the giver is the upper hand. Begin with those you support, your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then those nearest to you, and then the next nearest." Abridged.
أخبرنا يوسف بن عيسى قال أنبأنا الفضل بن موسى قال حدثنا يزيد وهو ابن زياد بن أبي الجعد عن جامع بن شداد
قدمنا المدينة فإذا رسول الله ﷺ قائم على المنبر يخطب الناس وهو يقول يد المعطي العليا وابدأ بمن تعول أمك وأباك وأختك وأخاك ثم أدناك أدناك مختصر
[Its chain of transmission is sahih. Daraqutni narrated it, 3/43,44, no. 2957, from the hadith of Yazid, at length, and it is in Kubra, no. 2311. Ibn Hibban graded it sahih, no. 810, as did Hakim, 2/612, and Dhahabi agreed with him. A portion of it is coming, (4843).