Someone said to her, "Your brother has been killed."She replied, "May Allah have mercy on him. Indeed, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return."Then they said, "Your husband has been killed."She cried out, "Oh, what grief!"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said, "Truly, the husband holds a place with the wife that nothing else can match."
حدثنا محمد بن يحيى حدثنا إسحق بن محمد الفروي حدثنا عبد الله بن عمر عن إبراهيم بن محمد بن عبد الله بن جحش عن أبيه
أنه قيل لها قتل أخوك فقالت رحمه الله وإنا لله وإنا إليه راجعون قالوا قتل زوجك قالت وا حزناه فقال رسول الله ﷺ إن للزوج من المرأة لشعبة ما هي لشيء
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Its chain of transmission is daif.Abdullah bin Umar Umari is daif but devout (Taqrib), though strong in what he narrates from Nafi, as mentioned previously under numbers 366 and 1299. Bayhaqi 4/66 and his teacher Hakim 4/61,62 both narrated it through the route of Farawi, who said, Abdullah bin Umar Umari narrated to us from his brother Ubaydullah from Ibrahim, with the same wording.Farawi himself is also a subject of criticism.