Ibn Abu Mulayka reported,

Ibn Abu Mulayka reported that the two excellent men, Abu Bakr and Umar, nearly destroyed themselves. When the delegation of Banu Tamim came to the Prophet ﷺ, one of them recommended Aqra bin Habis al-Hanzali, brother of Banu Mujash, while the other recommended someone else.Abu Bakr said to Umar, "You only intended to oppose me."Umar replied, "I did not intend to oppose you."Their voices rose in the presence of the Prophet ﷺ, so the verse was revealed, "Believers, do not raise your voices above the voice of the Prophet... great" [Hujurat 49:2–3].Ibn Zubayr said that afterwards, when anyone spoke to the Prophet ﷺ, Umar would speak to him like one whispering a secret, so quietly that the Prophet ﷺ could not hear him until he asked him to repeat himself. He did not mention the same about his father, meaning Abu Bakr.

Azami 9779

Sahih

عن ابن أبي مليكة قال

كاد الخيران أن يهلكا: أبو بكر وعمر لما قدم على النبي ﷺ وفد بني تميم أحدهما بالأقرع بن حابس الحنظلي أخي بني مجاشع وأشار الآخر بغيره، فقال أبو بكر لعمر: إنما أردت خلافي. فقال عمر: ما أردت خلافك. فارتفعت أصواتهما عند النبي ﷺ فنزلت: {يأيها الذين ءامنوا لا ترفعوا أصواتكم فوق صوت النبي} إلى قوله- {عظيم} [الحجرات: ٢-٣] قال ابن أبي مليكة: قال ابن الزبير: فكان عمر بعد-ولم يذكر ذلك عن أبيه، يعني أبا بكر- إذا حدث النبي ﷺ بحديث حدثه كأخي السرار، لم يسمعه حتى يستفهمه.

الأعظمي 9779صحيح
Contents
Reference
Commentary
Ayat
Collection
Jami al-Kamil
Book
Biography of the Prophet ﷺ
Chapter
Delegations to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ
Section
Tamim was counted among Yemen, and that was in the year nine
Numbering
Jami al-Kamil 9779 (2nd edition)
Azami 9779