We used to refrain from speaking freely or being too relaxed with our wives during the time of the Prophet ﷺ, fearing that something might be revealed concerning us. But when the Prophet ﷺ passed away, we began to speak freely and relax with them.
كنا نتقي الكلام والانبساط إلى نسائنا على عهد النبي ﷺ هيبة أن ينزل فينا شيء، فلما توفي النبي ﷺ تكلمنا وانبسطنا.