She said, "An effeminate man used to enter upon the wives of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. They considered him among those men who have no desire for women.One day, the Prophet ﷺ came in while this man was with one of his wives, describing a woman. He was saying, 'When she comes forward, she comes forward with four folds, and when she turns away, she turns away with eight.'The Prophet ﷺ said, 'I see that this man understands these matters. He must not enter upon you again.'"She said, "So they kept him out."
قال: كان يدخل على أزواج رسول الله ﷺ مخنث. فكانوا يعدونه من غير أولي الإربة. قال: فدخل النبي ﷺ يوما، وهو عند بعض نسائه. وهو ينعت امرأة قال: إذا أقبلت أقبلت بأربع، وإذا أدبرت أدبرت بثمان، فقال النبي ﷺ: ألا أرى هذا يعرف ما هنا، لا يدخلن عليكن، قالت: فحجبوه.
Muslim narrated it in "Salaam" (2181) from Abdullah bin Humayd, who said, Abdul-Razzaq informed us, from Maamar, from Zuhri, from Urwa, from Ayesha, and he related it as mentioned.His name has come in some reports as Anjasha, and he was the black slave who used to sing to urge on the women's camels.Among the points of jurisprudence in this hadith is that an effeminate man is to be barred from entering upon women, and that women are to be prevented from appearing before him, and this shows that he carries the same ruling as full-blooded men who desire women. Sharh Muslim by Nawawi.