Safiya bint Huyay reported,

The Prophet ﷺ performed the pilgrimage with his wives. At some point along the road, a man dismounted and began driving the camels carrying them, and he hurried them along. The Prophet ﷺ said, "That is how you drive glass vessels," meaning the women.While they were traveling, Safiya bint Huyayy's camel knelt down with her, and her camel was among the strongest mounts of the group. She began to cry. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was told about it, he came and started wiping her tears with his hand, but she only wept more, even as he tried to stop her. When she persisted, he scolded and rebuked her, then ordered the people to dismount, so they did, though he had not originally intended to stop there.Ayesha said, It was my day. When they dismounted, the Prophet's ﷺ tent was pitched and he entered it.She continued, I did not know how I could approach the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and I feared he held something against me. So I went to Ayesha and said to her, "You know that I would never trade my day with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ for anything. But I am giving you my day on the condition that you make the Messenger of Allah ﷺ pleased with me."Ayesha replied, "Alright."She said, So Ayesha took a head-cover of hers that had been dyed with saffron and sprinkled it with water to bring out its fragrance. Then she put on her garments and went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and lifted the edge of the tent.He said to her, "What is it, Ayesha? This is not your day."She replied, "That is the bounty of Allah, which He gives to whom He wills." So he stayed with her.When it was time to set out again, he said to Zaynab bint Jahsh, "Zaynab, give your sister Safiya one of your camels." Zaynab had the most mounts among them. She replied, "I should give a mount to your Jewess?"The Prophet ﷺ became angry when he heard that from her, and he avoided her, not speaking to her until he reached Mecca, and through the days at Mina on his journey, and until he returned to Medina, and through Muharram and Safar. He did not come to her or apportion her share of his time, and she gave up hope of him.When the month of Rabi Awwal came, he entered upon her. She saw his shadow and said, "This is the shadow of a man, and the Prophet ﷺ does not come to me, so who is this?" Then the Prophet ﷺ entered, and when she saw him she said, "Messenger of Allah, I do not know what to do now that you have come in to me."She had a slave-girl whom she used to keep hidden from the Prophet ﷺ. She said, "So-and-so is yours."The Prophet ﷺ walked over to Zaynab's bed, which had been put away, and placed it down with his own hand. Then he was intimate with his wife and was reconciled with his family.

عن صفية بنت حيي

أن النبي ﷺ حج بنسائه، فلما كان في بعض الطريق نزل رجل، فساق بهن، فأسرع، فقال النبي ﷺ: كذاك سوقك بالقوارير يعني النساء، فبينا هم يسيرون برك بصفية بنت حيي جملها، وكانت من أحسنهن ظهرا، فبكت، وجاء رسول الله ﷺ حين أخبر بذلك، فجعل يمسح دموعها بيده، وجعلت تزداد بكاء، وهو ينهاها، فلما أكثرت، زبرها، وانتهرها، وأمر الناس بالنزول، فنزلوا، ولم يكن يريد أن ينزل، قالت: فنزلوا، وكان يومي، فلما نزلوا، ضرب خباء النبي ﷺ، ودخل فيه، قالت: فلم أدر علام أهجم من رسول الله ﷺ، وخشيت أن يكون في نفسه شيء مني، فانطلقت إلى عائشة، فقلت لها: تعلمين أني لم أكن أبيع يومي من رسول الله ﷺ بشيء أبدا، وإني قد وهبت يومي لك على أن ترضي رسول الله ﷺ عني، قالت: نعم، قال: فأخذت عائشة خمارا لها، قد تردته بزعفران، فرشته بالماء ليذكي ريحه، ثم لبست ثيابها، ثم انطلقت إلى رسول الله ﷺ، فرفعت طرف الخباء، فقال لها: ما لك يا عائشة؟ إن هذا ليس بيومك، قالت: ذلك فضل الله يؤتيه من يشاء، فقال مع أهله، فلما كان عند الرواح، قال لزينب بنت جحش: يا زينب أفقري أختك صفية جملا، وكانت من أكثرهن ظهرا، فقالت: أنا أفقر يهوديتك، فغضب النبي ﷺ حين سمع ذلك منها، فهجرها، فلم يكلمها حتى قدم مكة، وأيام مني في سفره، حتى رجع إلى المدينة، والمحرم، وصفر، فلم يأتها ولم يقسم لها، ويئست منه، فلما كان شهر ربيع الأول دخل عليها، فرأت ظله، فقالت: إن هذا لظل رجل، وما يدخل علي النبي ﷺ، فمن هذا؟ فدخل النبي ﷺ، فلما رأته، قالت: يا رسول الله ما أدري ما أصنع حين دخلت علي، قالت: وكانت لها جارية، وكانت تخبؤها من النبي ﷺ، فقالت: فلانة لك، فمشى النبي ﷺ إلى سرير زينب، وكان قد رفع، فوضعه بيده، ثم أصاب أهله، ورضي عنهم.