The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by us while we were among a group of women. He greeted us and said, "Beware of being ungrateful to those who treat you well."We asked, "Messenger of Allah, what does it mean to be ungrateful to those who treat us well?"He replied, "One of you may remain unmarried for a long time in her parents' home, growing past the usual age of marriage. Then Allah provides her with a husband, and through him grants her wealth and children. Yet when she becomes angry, she says, 'I have never seen a single good day from him.'"
مر بنا رسول الله ﷺ ونحن في نسوة، فسلم علينا، وقال: إياكن وكفر المنعمين، فقلنا: يا رسول الله، وما كفر المنعمين؟ قال: لعل إحداكن أن تطول أيمتها بين أبويها، وتعنس، فيرزقها الله عز وجل زوجا، ويرزقها منه مالا وولدا، فتغضب الغضبة، فتقول: ما رأيت منه يوما خيرا قط.
Ahmad (27561) and Tabarani in Kabir (24/164) both narrated it from the hadith of Shahr, who said, I heard Asma say, and he mentioned it. Some of the authors of the Sunan works mentioned it, restricting themselves to mentioning the greeting of peace to women. Its chain is hasan, and there is well-known discussion regarding Shahr, but he has been corroborated.Bukhari narrated it in Adab al-Mufrad (1048) from Makhlad, who said, Mubashir bin Ismail narrated to us, from Ibn Abu Ghaniya, from Muhammad bin Muhajir, from his father, from Asma, and he mentioned it similarly.Tabarani also narrated it in Kabir (24/184) through another route from Ibn Abu Ghaniya, with his chain, in like manner. Muhammad bin Muhajir and his father were both mentioned by Ibn Hibban in Thiqat.