Ibn Umar reported from the Prophet ﷺ that he said, "The deceased is tormented by the weeping of his family over him."This was mentioned to Ayesha, and she said, "Ibn Umar is mistaken. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ merely passed by a grave and said, 'The occupant of this grave is being tormented while his family weeps over him.'"Then she recited this verse, "And no bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another" [Anam 6:164].
حدثنا عبدة حدثنا هشام عن أبيه
عن النبي ﷺ أنه قال إن الميت ليعذب ببكاء أهله عليه فذكر ذلك لعائشة فقالت وهل يعني ابن عمر إنما مر رسول الله ﷺ على قبر فقال إن صاحب هذا ليعذب وأهله يبكون عليه ثم قرأت هذه الآية {ولا تزر وازرة وزر أخرى}