My husband, Abu Amr bin Hafs bin Mughira, sent Ayyash bin Abu Rabia to me with my divorce, and he also sent me five measures of barley.I said, "Is this all I have for maintenance? And am I not to observe my waiting period in your house?"He replied, "No."So I gathered my clothes and went to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned this to him.He asked, "How many times has he divorced you?"I said, "Three times."He said, "He has spoken the truth. You are not entitled to maintenance. Observe your waiting period at the house of your cousin Ibn Umm Maktum, for he is blind, and you may take off your outer garments there. When your waiting period ends, let me know."She said, several men proposed to me, among them Muawiya and Abu Jahm. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "As for Muawiya, he is poor and has little means. As for Abu Jahm, he beats women," or he said, "he is harsh with women. You should marry Usama bin Zayd," or he said, "Marry Usama bin Zayd."
حدثنا عبد الرحمن بن مهدي قال حدثنا سفيان عن أبي بكر بن أبي الجهم قال سمعت
أرسل إلي زوجي أبو عمرو بن حفص بن المغيرة عياش بن أبي ربيعة بطلاقي وأرسل إلي خمسة آصع شعير فقلت ما لي نفقة إلا هذا ولا أعتد إلا في بيتكم قال لا فشددت علي ثيابي ثم أتيت النبي ﷺ فذكرت ذلك له فقال كم طلقك قلت ثلاثا قال صدق ليس لك نفقة واعتدي في بيت ابن عمك ابن أم مكتوم فإنه ضرير البصر تلقين ثيابك عنك فإذا انقضت عدتك فآذنيني قالت فخطبني خطاب فيهم معاوية وأبو جهم فقال رسول الله ﷺ إن معاوية ترب خفيف الحال وأبو جهم يضرب النساء ولكن أي فيه شدة على النساء عليك بأسامة بن زيد أو قال انكحي أسامة بن زيد
Its isnad is sahih. Abu Bakr bin Abu Jahm is named after his grandfather, and he is Abu Bakr bin Abdullah bin Abu Jahm. He is trustworthy, and his hadith is found in Muslim. The hadith has already appeared at length at 26979.