I got married, and the Prophet ﷺ asked me, "What kind of woman did you marry?"I replied, "I married a previously married woman."He said, "Why not a virgin, so you could play with her saliva?"Shuba said, "I mentioned this to Amr bin Dinar, who said, 'I heard Jabir say that the Prophet ﷺ said, "Why not a young girl, so you could play with her and she could play with you?"'"Aswad bin Amir, meaning Shadhan, narrated both reports to us with the same meaning.
حدثنا هاشم بن القاسم حدثنا شعبة عن محارب بن دثار قال سمعت
تزوجت فقال لي النبي ﷺ ما تزوجت قال قلت تزوجت ثيبا فقال ما لك وللعذارى ولعابها قال شعبة فذكرت ذلك لعمرو بن دينار فقال سمعت جابرا يقول قال النبي ﷺ أفهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك حدثناهما أسود بن عامر يعني شاذان المعنى