I got married, so I came to the Prophet ﷺ.He asked, "Have you gotten married, Jabir?"I replied, "Yes."He asked, "A virgin or a previously married woman?"I said, "No, a previously married woman."He said, "Why not a young girl, so you could play with her and she with you?"I said, "Messenger of Allah, Abdullah died and left behind seven daughters," or "nine," "so I brought home someone who could look after them."He then prayed for me.
حدثنا قتيبة حدثنا حماد بن زيد عن عمرو بن دينار
تزوجت امرأة فأتيت النبي ﷺ فقال أتزوجت يا جابر فقلت نعم فقال بكرا أم ثيبا فقلت لا بل ثيبا فقال هلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك فقلت يا رسول الله إن عبد الله مات وترك سبع بنات أو تسعا فجئت بمن يقوم عليهن قال فدعا لي
Agreed upon [by Bukhari and Muslim]. Bukhari reported it in the Book of Expenditures, Chapter on a wife's assistance to her husband regarding his child, no. 5367, and Muslim, no. 715/1466, in the Book of Suckling, Chapter on the recommendation of marrying a virgin, after hadith no. 1466, from the hadith of Hammad bin Zayd through this route.On this topic there are also narrations from Ubayy bin Kaab [Bukhari in Tarikh al-Kabir, 3/272] and Kaab bin Ujra [Bukhari in Tarikh al-Kabir, 3/272, and Tabarani in al-Kabir, 19/150, no. 328].