Jabir bin Abdullah reported,

Jabir reported that he married a woman during the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. The Prophet ﷺ met him and asked, "Have you gotten married, Jabir?"Jabir replied, "Yes."The Prophet ﷺ asked, "A virgin or a previously married woman?"Jabir said, "A previously married woman."The Prophet ﷺ said, "Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she with you?"Jabir replied, "Messenger of Allah, I have sisters, and I feared that she would come between me and them."The Prophet ﷺ said, "Then that is fine. A woman is married for her religion, her wealth, and her beauty. So choose the one of religion, may your hands be filled with dust."

أخبرنا إسمعيل بن مسعود قال حدثنا خالد عن عبد الملك عن عطاء

عن جابر

أنه تزوج امرأة على عهد رسول الله ﷺ فلقيه النبي ﷺ فقال أتزوجت يا جابر قال قلت نعم قال بكرا أم ثيبا قال قلت بل ثيبا قال فهلا بكرا تلاعبك قال قلت يا رسول الله كن لي أخوات فخشيت أن تدخل بيني وبينهن قال فذاك إذا إن المرأة تنكح على دينها ومالها وجمالها فعليك بذات الدين تربت يداك