The Messenger of Allah ﷺ came upon a woman weeping over a small child of hers, and he said to her, "Be mindful of Allah and be patient."She replied, "What do you care about my affliction?"When he had gone, she was told, "That was the Messenger of Allah ﷺ."She was struck with something like the pangs of death, so she came to his door, and she found no doorkeepers there. She said, "Messenger of Allah, I did not recognize you."He said, "Patience is at the first blow," or he said, "at the first of the blow."Such is the hadith of Uthman bin Umar with its story, while in the hadith of Abdul-Samad it reads, "The Prophet ﷺ passed by a woman at a grave."
و حدثناه يحيى بن حبيب الحارثي حدثنا خالد يعني ابن الحارث ح و حدثنا عقبة بن مكرم العمي حدثنا عبد الملك بن عمرو ح و حدثني أحمد بن إبراهيم الدورقي حدثنا عبد الصمد قالوا جميعا حدثنا شعبة بهذا الإسناد نحو حديث عثمان بن عمر بقصته وفي حديث عبد الصمد مر النبي ﷺ بامرأة عند قبر