The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by a woman who was weeping over her child. He said to her, "Fear Allah and be patient."She replied, "What do you care about my misfortune?"When he had gone, she was told that he was the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. She was struck as if by death, and she came to his door, finding no doorkeepers there.She said, "Messenger of Allah, I did not recognize you."He said, "Patience is only at the first shock," or he said, "at the onset of the shock."
و حدثنا محمد بن المثنى حدثنا عثمان بن عمر أخبرنا شعبة عن ثابت البناني
أن رسول الله ﷺ أتى على امرأة تبكي على صبي لها فقال لها اتقي الله واصبري فقالت وما تبالي بمصيبتي فلما ذهب قيل لها إنه رسول الله ﷺ فأخذها مثل الموت فأتت بابه فلم تجد على بابه بوابين فقالت يا رسول الله لم أعرفك فقال إنما الصبر عند أول صدمة أو قال عند أول الصدمة