I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ among a group of women who pledged allegiance to him for Islam. The women said, "Messenger of Allah, we pledge to you that we will not associate anything with Allah, nor steal, nor commit fornication, nor kill our children, nor bring forward any slander we have invented between our hands and our feet, nor disobey you in what is right."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ replied, "In whatever you are able and capable of."She said, So the women said, "Allah and His Messenger are more merciful toward us than we are toward ourselves. Come, let us pledge allegiance to you, Messenger of Allah."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I do not shake hands with women. My word to a hundred women is like my word to a single woman," or, "is the same as my word to a single woman."
و حدثني مالك عن محمد بن المنكدر
أتيت رسول الله ﷺ في نسوة بايعنه على الإسلام فقلن يا رسول الله نبايعك على أن لا نشرك بالله شيئا ولا نسرق ولا نزني ولا نقتل أولادنا ولا نأتي ببهتان نفتريه بين أيدينا وأرجلنا ولا نعصيك في معروف فقال رسول الله ﷺ فيما استطعتن وأطقتن قالت فقلن الله ورسوله أرحم بنا من أنفسنا هلم نبايعك يا رسول الله فقال رسول الله ﷺ إني لا أصافح النساء إنما قولي لمائة امرأة كقولي لامرأة واحدة أو مثل قولي لامرأة واحدة