Uwaymir Ajlani came to Asim bin Adi Ansari and said to him, "Asim, tell me about a man who finds another man with his wife. Should he kill him, and then you would put him to death for it? Or what should he do? Ask the Messenger of Allah ﷺ about this for me, Asim."So Asim asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ about it, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ disliked such questions and found them objectionable, so much so that what Asim heard from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ weighed heavily on him. When Asim returned to his family, Uwaymir came to him and asked, "Asim, what did the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say to you?"Asim replied, "You have brought me nothing good. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ disliked the question I put to him."Uwaymir said, "By Allah, I will not stop until I ask him about it myself."So Uwaymir got up and went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in the midst of the people and said, "Messenger of Allah, tell me about a man who finds another man with his wife. Should he kill him, and then you would put him to death for it? Or what should he do?"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Revelation has come down concerning you and your wife. Go and bring her here."Sahl said, "So the two of them pronounced the oaths of condemnation against each other, and I was there among the people with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. When they had finished exchanging their oaths, Uwaymir said, 'I would be lying about her, Messenger of Allah, if I kept her,' and he divorced her three times before the Messenger of Allah ﷺ had ordered him to do so."
حدثني يحيى عن مالك عن ابن شهاب أن
أن عويمرا العجلاني جاء إلى عاصم بن عدي الأنصاري فقال له يا عاصم أرأيت رجلا وجد مع امرأته رجلا أيقتله فتقتلونه أم كيف يفعل سل لي يا عاصم عن ذلك رسول الله ﷺ فسأل عاصم رسول الله ﷺ عن ذلك فكره رسول الله ﷺ المسائل وعابها حتى كبر على عاصم ما سمع من رسول الله ﷺ فلما رجع عاصم إلى أهله جاءه عويمر فقال يا عاصم ماذا قال لك رسول الله ﷺ فقال عاصم لعويمر لم تأتني بخير قد كره رسول الله ﷺ المسألة التي سألته عنها فقال عويمر والله لا أنتهي حتى أسأله عنها فقام عويمر حتى أتى رسول الله ﷺ وسط الناس فقال يا رسول الله أرأيت رجلا وجد مع امرأته رجلا أيقتله فتقتلونه أم كيف يفعل فقال رسول الله ﷺ قد أنزل فيك وفي صاحبتك فاذهب فأت بها قال سهل فتلاعنا وأنا مع الناس عند رسول الله ﷺ فلما فرغا من تلاعنهما قال عويمر كذبت عليها يا رسول الله إن أمسكتها فطلقها ثلاثا قبل أن يأمره رسول الله ﷺ