The Prophet ﷺ said, "The deceased is tormented by the weeping of the living when they cry out, 'Oh, my support! Oh, my provider of clothing! Oh, my helper! Oh, my mountain!' and similar laments. He is shaken and told, 'Are you really like that? Are you really like that?'"Usayd said, "I exclaimed, 'Glory be to Allah! Allah says, 'No bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another' [Anam 6:164].'"He replied, "Woe to you! I am telling you that Abu Musa narrated this to me from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Do you think Abu Musa lied about the Prophet ﷺ, or do you think I lied about Abu Musa?"
حدثنا يعقوب بن حميد بن كاسب حدثنا عبد العزيز بن محمد الدراوردي حدثنا أسيد بن أبي أسيد
أن النبي ﷺ قال الميت يعذب ببكاء الحي إذا قالوا وا عضداه وا كاسياه وا ناصراه وا جبلاه ونحو هذا يتعتع ويقال أنت كذلك أنت كذلك قال أسيد فقلت سبحان الله إن الله يقول {ولا تزر وازرة وزر أخرى} قال ويحك أحدثك أن أبا موسى حدثني عن رسول الله ﷺ فترى أن أبا موسى كذب على النبي ﷺ أو ترى أني كذبت على أبي موسى
Its isnad is hasan. Tirmidhi transmitted it in the Book of Funerals, chapter on the dislike of weeping over the dead, 100, and Ahmad, 4/414, through two routes from Usayd with this wording. Tirmidhi said, hasan gharib, and Munziri indicated that it is hasan.Musa bin Abu Musa was deemed trustworthy by Ibn Main (Dawri, 2/596), by Ibn Hibban, and by others.