The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "May Allah have mercy on a man who rises at night to pray and wakes his wife so that she may pray, and if she refuses, he sprinkles water on her face. And may Allah have mercy on a woman who rises at night to pray and wakes her husband so that he may pray, and if he refuses, she sprinkles water on his face."
حدثنا أحمد بن ثابت الجحدري حدثنا يحيى بن سعيد عن ابن عجلان عن القعقاع بن حكيم عن أبي صالح
قال رسول الله ﷺ رحم الله رجلا قام من الليل فصلى وأيقظ امرأته فصلت فإن أبت رش في وجهها الماء رحم الله امرأة قامت من الليل فصلت وأيقظت زوجها فصلى فإن أبى رشت في وجهه الماء
Its isnad is hasan. Recorded by Abu Dawud in the Book of Voluntary Prayers, chapter on Night Prayer, hadith no. 1308, from the hadith of Yahya Qattan, through this route. Ibn Khuzayma, Ibn Hibban, Hakim, Dhahabi, and Nawawi graded it sahih.