I got married, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked me, "Whom have you married?"I replied, "I have married a previously married woman."He said, "What is wrong with you and young virgins and their playfulness?"I mentioned this to Amr bin Dinar, and Amr said, "I heard Jabir bin Abdullah say, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, "Why not a young girl whom you could play with and who could play with you?"'"
حدثنا آدم حدثنا شعبة حدثنا محارب قال سمعت
تزوجت فقال لي رسول الله ﷺ ما تزوجت فقلت تزوجت ثيبا فقال ما لك وللعذارى ولعابها فذكرت ذلك لعمرو بن دينار فقال عمرو سمعت جابر بن عبد الله يقول قال لي رسول الله ﷺ هلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك