Jabir bin Abdullah reported,

We were returning with the Prophet ﷺ from a military expedition, and I hurried ahead on a camel of mine that was slow in pace. A rider caught up with me from behind and prodded my camel with an Anazah he had with him, and my camel took off as swiftly as the finest camel you could ever see. There was the Prophet ﷺ, who asked, "What is making you hurry?"I replied, "I am newly married."He asked, "To a virgin or a previously married woman?"I said, "A previously married woman."He said, "Why not a young Jariya, so you could play with her and she with you?"When we were about to enter the city, he said, "Hold off, so that you may enter at night, meaning in the evening, so that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it and the one whose husband has been away may shave."

Bukhari 5079

Sahih

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عن جابر بن عبد الله قال

قفلنا مع النبي ﷺ من غزوة فتعجلت على بعير لي قطوف فلحقني راكب من خلفي فنخس بعيري بعنزة كانت معه فانطلق بعيري كأجود ما أنت راء من الإبل فإذا النبي ﷺ فقال ما يعجلك قلت كنت حديث عهد بعرس قال أبكرا أم ثيبا قلت ثيبا قال فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك قال فلما ذهبنا لندخل قال أمهلوا حتى تدخلوا ليلا أي عشاء لكي تمتشط الشعثة وتستحد المغيبة

البخاري 5079صحيح
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Reference
Commentary
Ayat
Collection
Sahih Bukhari
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Marriage
Chapter
Previously married women
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Darussalam 5079
Bukhari 5079