Hind bint Utba bin Rabia came and said, "Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no household on the face of the earth I more wished to see humiliated than the people of your household. But today, there is no household on the face of the earth I more wish to see honored than the people of your household."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ replied, "And even more so, by the One in whose hand my soul rests."Then she said, "Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man. Is there any blame on me if I feed our family from what belongs to him?"He answered, "No, as long as it is done in a reasonable manner."
جاءت هند بنت عتبة بن ربيعة فقالت: يا رسول الله! والله ما كان على ظهر الأرض خباء أحب إلي من أن يذلوامن أهل خبائك، وما أصبح اليوم على ظهر الأرض خباء أحب إلي من أن يعزوا من أهل خبائك، فقال رسول الله ﷺ: وأيضا، والذي نفسي بيده ثم قالت: يا رسول الله! إن أبا سفيان رحل مسيك، فهل على حرج من أن أطعم من الذي له عيالنا؟ فقال لها: لا، إلا بالمعروف
Bukhari narrated it in the Book of Oaths and Vows (6641), and Muslim in the Book of Judgments (4480), both from the hadith of Ibn Shihab Zuhri, who said, "Urwa bin Zubayr narrated to me that Ayesha said..." The wording given here is that of Muslim, and Bukhari's wording is similar.His saying, "the tent" means the house.