Abdullah bin Umar reported,

We used to refrain from speaking freely or being too relaxed with our wives during the time of the Prophet ﷺ, fearing that something might be revealed concerning us. But when the Prophet ﷺ passed away, we began to speak freely and relax with them.

Azami 6332

Sahih

عن عبد الله بن عمر قال

كنا نتقي الكلام والانبساط إلى نسائنا على عهد النبي ﷺ هيبة أن ينزل فينا شيء، فلما توفي النبي ﷺ تكلمنا وانبسطنا.

الأعظمي 6332صحيح
Contents
Reference
Commentary
Ayat
Collection
Jami al-Kamil
Book
Marriage
Chapter
Rights and duties of the Muslim woman, and good treatment of her
Section
Playing with one's wife, joking with her, and being at ease with her
Numbering
Jami al-Kamil 6332 (2nd edition)
Azami 6332