The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to give Umar bin Khattab a gift, and Umar would say to him, "Give it to someone more in need of it than I am, Messenger of Allah."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ replied, "Take it. Either keep it as your own property or give it away in charity. Whatever comes to you of this wealth while you are neither craving it nor asking for it, take it. As for what does not come to you, do not let your soul chase after it."Salim said, "It was for this reason that Ibn Umar would never ask anyone for anything, nor would he refuse anything given to him."
إن رسول الله ﷺ كان يعطي عمر بن الخطاب العطاء فيقول له عمر: أعطه يا رسول الله أفقر إليه مني، فقال له رسول الله ﷺ: خذه فتموله أو تصدق به، وما جاءك من هذا المال وأنت غير مشرف ولا سائل فخذه وما لا فلا تتبعه نفسك. قال سالم: فمن أجل ذلك كان ابن عمر لا يسأل أحدا شيئا، ولا يرد شيئا أعطيه.