Abu Saeed Khudri reported,

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ went out to the prayer ground on a day of Eid al-Adha or Eid al-Fitr. After finishing the prayer, he addressed the people, advising them and urging them to give charity. He said, "People, give in charity."Then he passed by the women and said, "Women, give in charity, for I have seen that you make up the majority of the inhabitants of Hell."They asked, "Why is that, Messenger of Allah?"He replied, "You curse frequently and you are ungrateful to your husbands. I have never seen anyone more capable of robbing a sensible man of his reason than one of you, despite your deficiency in intellect and religion."Then he left, and when he reached his home, Zaynab, the wife of Ibn Masud, came seeking permission to enter. It was said, "Messenger of Allah, this is Zaynab."He asked, "Which Zaynab?"It was said, "The wife of Ibn Masud."He said, "Yes, let her in."She was admitted, and she said, "Prophet of Allah, you commanded today that we give charity. I had some jewelry of mine that I wanted to donate, but Ibn Masud claims that he and his children are more deserving of receiving it as charity from me."The Prophet ﷺ said, "Ibn Masud has spoken the truth. Your husband and your children are more deserving of the charity you give."

عن أبي سعيد الخدري، قال

خرج رسول الله ﷺ في أضحى أو فطر إلى المصلى، ثم انصرف فوعظ الناس وأمرهم بالصدقة فقال: أيها الناس تصدقوا. فمر على النساء، فقال: يا معشر النساء تصدقن فإني رأيتكن أكثر أهل النار. فقلن: وبم ذلك يا رسول الله؟ قال: تكثرن اللعن وتكفرن العشير، ما رأيت من ناقصات عقل ودين أذهب للب الرجل الحازم من إحداكن يا معشر النساء. ثم انصرف فلما صار إلى منزله جاءت زينب امرأة ابن مسعود تستأذن عليه فقيل: يا رسول الله، هذه زينب. فقال: أي الزيانب؟ فقيل: امرأة ابن مسعود. قال: نعم الذنوا لها. فأذن لها، قالت: يا نبي الله، إنك أمرت اليوم بالصدقة وكان عندي حلي لي فأردت أن أتصدق فزعم ابن مسعود أنه وولده أحق من تصدقت به عليهم؟ فقال النبي ﷺ: صدق ابن مسعود، زوجك وولدك أحق من تصدقت به عليهم.