Abu Burda reported,

Abu Musa gave instructions when death approached him, saying, "When you carry my funeral bier, walk swiftly. Do not follow me with incense, do not place anything in my grave that comes between me and the earth, and do not erect any structure over my grave. I call you to witness that I disown every woman who shaves her head in mourning, raises her voice in wailing, or tears her clothes in grief."They asked, "Have you heard something about this?"He replied, "Yes, from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ."

Azami 3563

Hasan

عن أبي بردة قال

أوصى أبو موسى حين حضره الموت فقال: إذا انطلقتم بجنازتي فأسرعوا المشي، ولا تتبعني بمجمر، ولا تجعلوا في لحدي شيئا يحول بيني وبين التراب، ولا تجعلوا على قبري بناء، وأشهدكم أني بريء من كل حالقة، أو سالقة، أو خارقة، قالوا: أو سمعت فيه شيئا؟ قال: نعم من رسول الله ﷺ.

الأعظمي 3563حسن
Contents
Reference
Commentary
Ayat
Collection
Jami al-Kamil
Book
Funerals
Chapter
Prohibition of wailing over the deceased, and permissibility of weeping and showing grief over him
Section
Disavowal of the Prophet ﷺ from the woman who wails loudly, the woman who shaves her head, and the woman who tears her clothes
Numbering
Jami al-Kamil 3563 (2nd edition)
Azami 3563