I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ among a group of women pledging allegiance to him on Islam. The women said, "Messenger of Allah, we pledge to you that we will not associate anything with Allah, nor steal, nor commit adultery, nor kill our children, nor bring forth a slander we have invented between our hands and feet, nor disobey you in what is right."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "In what you are able and capable of doing."She said, the women then said, "Allah and His Messenger are more merciful to us than we are to ourselves. Come, let us pledge to you, Messenger of Allah."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I do not shake hands with women. My word to a hundred women is like my word to a single woman."
أتيت رسول الله ﷺ في نسوة بايعنه على الإسلام فقلن: يا رسول الله نبايعك على أن لا نشرك بالله شيئا، ولا نسرق، ولا نزني، ولا نقتل أولادنا، ولا نأتي ببهتان نفتريه بين أيدينا وأرجلنا، ولا نعصيك في معروف، فقال رسول الله ﷺ ((فيما استطعتن وأطقتن)) قالت: فقلن: الله ورسوله أرحم بنا من أنفسنا، هلم نبايعك يا رسول الله، فقال رسول الله ﷺ: ((إني لا أصافح النساء، إنما قولي لمائة امرأة كقولي لامرأة واحدة أو مثل قولي لامرأة واحدة)).
Malik narrated it in "The Pledge" (2) from Muhammad bin Munkadir, from Umaymah bint Ruqayqa, and mentioned it, and its chain of transmission is sahih. Tirmidhi (1597), Nasai (4181), Ibn Majah (2874), Ahmad (27019), Ibn Hibban (4553), and Hakim (4/71) all narrated it through various routes from Muhammad bin Munkadir. Tirmidhi said, "hasan sahih, we do not know it except through the hadith of Muhammad bin Munkadir."