She said, "We pledged allegiance to the Prophet ﷺ, and he recited to us, 'That they will not associate anything with Allah' [Mumtahanah 60:12], and he forbade us from wailing over the dead. One woman among us withdrew her hand and said, 'So-and-so helped me in mourning, and I wish to repay her in kind.' He said nothing in reply. She left, then returned. No woman fulfilled the pledge except Umm Sulaym, Umm Ala, and the daughter of Abu Sabra who was the wife of Muaz, or rather the daughter of Abu Sabra, and the wife of Muaz."
بايعنا النبي ﷺ فقرأ علينا: {أن لا يشركن بالله شيئا} ونهانا عن النياحة، فقبضت امرأة منا يدها، فقالت: فلانة أسعدتني، وأنا أريد أن أجزيها فلم يقل شيئا، فذهبت، ثم رجعت فما وفت امرأة إلا أم سليم، وأم العلاء وابنة أبي سبرة امرأة معاذ- أو- ابنة أبي سبرة، وامرأة معاذ.
Bukhari narrated it in the chapter on Rulings (7215) from Musaddad, who said, Abdul-Warith narrated to us, from Ayub, from Hafsa, from Umm Atiya, who said, and then she mentioned it.Muslim narrated it in the chapter on Funerals (937) through another route from Hafsa, with this wording, from Umm Atiya, who said, "When this verse was revealed," she said, "it included wailing."She said, "So I said, 'Messenger of Allah, except the family of so-and-so, for they consoled me during the pre-Islamic period, so I must console them.'"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Except the family of so-and-so."