"Do you know who the bereaved man is?"They said, "The one who has no child."He said, "The bereaved man, the utterly bereaved man, the bereaved man, the utterly bereaved man, the bereaved man, the utterly bereaved man, is the one who has children, then dies without having sent any of them on ahead of him."Then he asked, "Do you know who the destitute man is?"They said, "The one who has no wealth."The Prophet ﷺ said, "The destitute man, the utterly destitute man, the destitute man, the utterly destitute man, is the one who has wealth, then dies without having sent any of it on ahead of him."Then the Prophet ﷺ asked, "Who is the man thrown down?"They said, "The one who is thrown in wrestling."The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The man thrown down, the man utterly thrown down, the man thrown down, the man utterly thrown down, is the man who grows angry, and his anger intensifies, and his face turns red, and his hair bristles, and so his anger throws him down."
حدثنا محمد بن جعفر حدثنا شعبة قال سمعت عروة بن عبد الله الجعفي يحدث عن ابن حصبة أو أبي حصبة
تدرون ما الرقوب قالوا الذي لا ولد له فقال الرقوب كل الرقوب الرقوب كل الرقوب الرقوب كل الرقوب الذي له ولد فمات ولم يقدم منهم شيئا قال تدرون ما الصعلوك قالوا الذي ليس له مال قال النبي ﷺ الصعلوك كل الصعلوك الصعلوك كل الصعلوك الذي له مال فمات ولم يقدم منه شيئا قال ثم قال النبي ﷺ ما الصرعة قالوا الصريع قال فقال رسول الله ﷺ الصرعة كل الصرعة الصرعة كل الصرعة الرجل يغضب فيشتد غضبه ويحمر وجهه ويقشعر شعره فيصرعه غضبه
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Its isnad is daif because Ibn Husayya, or Abu Husayya, is unknown, and Haythami said the same in 3/11, quoting from Husayni, and Ibn Hajar followed them in al-Taajil, but he said Ibn Husayya. It is also found in Bayhaqi's Shuab, 3/210, no. 3341, though the editor did not verify its isnad, so there is a significant error in it. And in al-Durr al-Manthur, 1/355, it is said, Hasafa bin Husayfa.