Miswar reported,

Hasan bin Hasan sent a proposal to Miswar asking for the hand of his daughter in marriage. Miswar told him, "Come to me at the time of the evening prayer."When they met, Miswar praised Allah and said, "There is no tie of kinship, lineage, or marriage dearer to me than your lineage and your bond by marriage. But the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'Fatimah is a part of me. What pleases her pleases me, and what troubles her troubles me. On the Day of Resurrection, all ties of lineage and kinship will be severed except my lineage and my kinship.' You already have her daughter as your wife, and were I to marry my daughter to you, that would trouble her."So Hasan left, accepting his excuse.

حدثنا محمد بن عباد المكي حدثنا أبو سعيد مولى بني هاشم حدثنا عبد الله بن جعفر عن أم بكر وجعفر عن عبيد الله بن أبي رافع

عن المسور قال

بعث حسن بن حسن إلى المسور يخطب بنتا له قال له توافيني في العتمة فلقيه فحمد الله المسور فقال ما من سبب ولا نسب ولا صهر أحب إلي من نسبكم وصهركم ولكن رسول الله ﷺ قال فاطمة شجنة مني يبسطني ما بسطها ويقبضني ما قبضها وإنه ينقطع يوم القيامة الأنساب والأسباب إلا نسبي وسببي وتحتك ابنتها ولو زوجتك قبضها ذلك فذهب عاذرا له