I heard him narrating, "I attended two of the wedding feasts held by the wives of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and we were not served bread or meat at either of them."I asked, "Then what was served?"He replied, "Hays," meaning dates and dried curd mixed with clarified butter.
حدثنا هشيم أخبرنا علي بن زيد
سمعته يحدث قال شهدت وليمتين من نساء رسول الله ﷺ قال فما أطعمنا فيها خبزا ولا لحما قال قلت فمه قال الحيس يعني التمر والأقط بالسمن
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Its isnad is hasan because of Ali bin Zayd, and it is found in Bukhari 9/126 no. 5085, Fath, in the Book of Marriage, chapter on taking concubines, and in Muslim 2/1044 no. 1365, in the Book of Marriage, chapter on the virtue of freeing one's slave woman, and in Malik 2/546, in the Book of Marriage, chapter on what has been said about the wedding feast.