I entered the mosque and saw Abu Saeed Khudri, so I sat with him and asked him about coitus interruptus.Abu Saeed said, "We went out with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ on the expedition against Banu Mustaliq, and we captured some Arab women as prisoners of war. We desired the women, as celibacy had become difficult for us, and we wanted to practice coitus interruptus. We decided to do so while the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was among us, but before acting we thought to ask him about it. So we asked him, and he said, 'It does not matter if you do not do it. There is no soul destined to come into being until the Day of Resurrection that will not come into being.'"
قال قرأت على عبد الرحمن: مالك قال أبي و حدثنا إسحاق أخبرنا مالك عن ربيعة بن أبي عبد الرحمن عن محمد بن يحيى بن حبان
دخلت المسجد ورأيت أبا سعيد الخدري فجلست إليه فسألته عن العزل فقال أبو سعيد خرجنا مع رسول الله ﷺ في غزوة بني المصطلق فأصبنا سبايا من سبي العرب فاشتهينا النساء واشتدت علينا العزبة وأحببنا العزل وأردنا أن نعزل ورسول الله ﷺ بين أظهرنا قبل أن نسأله فسألناه عن ذلك فقال ما عليكم أن لا تفعلوا ما من نسمة كائنة إلى يوم القيامة إلا وهي كائنة
Its isnad is sahih. Its narrators are jurists. Rabia bin Abu Abdul-Rahman is Rabia the Jurist, the well-known scholar of legal opinion, and Muhammad bin Yahya bin Habban is also a well-known jurist, and Ibn Muhayriz is Abdullah.The hadith with this wording was narrated by Bukhari 5/148 in the Book of Military Expeditions, chapter on the Expedition of Banu Mustaliq, and Muslim 2/1061 number 1438 in the Book of Marriage, chapter on the ruling on coitus interruptus, and Abu Dawud 2/252 number 2072 with similar wording, and Malik in Muwatta 2/594, all of them from Abu Saeed.