I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, "Allah has given every person who has a right his due, so there is no bequest for an heir. A woman is not to spend anything from her house without her husband's permission."Someone asked, "Messenger of Allah, not even food?"He replied, "That is the most valuable of our possessions."Then he said, "A loan must be returned, a gift lent for use must be given back, a debt must be paid, and the guarantor is liable."
حدثنا عبد الوهاب بن نجدة الحوطي حدثنا ابن عياش عن شرحبيل بن مسلم قال سمعت
سمعت رسول الله ﷺ يقول إن الله عز وجل قد أعطى كل ذي حق حقه فلا وصية لوارث ولا تنفق المرأة شيئا من بيتها إلا بإذن زوجها فقيل يا رسول الله ولا الطعام قال ذاك أفضل أموالنا ثم قال العور مؤداة والمنحة مردودة والدين مقضي والزعيم غارم
Graded hasan. Ibn Majah transmitted it in the Book of Charities, chapter on borrowed items, no. 2398, and Tirmidhi, from the hadith of Ismail bin Ayyash, through this route, and he clearly stated that he heard it directly, as recorded by Ahmad: 5/267. Tirmidhi said, hasan gharib, and Ibn Jarud graded it sahih, no. 1023. The hadith has corroborating narrations.