Hind, the mother of Muawiya, came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Is there any blame on me if I take something from his wealth?"He replied, "Take what is sufficient for you and your children according to what is reasonable."
حدثنا أحمد بن يونس حدثنا زهير حدثنا هشام بن عروة عن عروة
أن هندا أم معاوية جاءت رسول الله ﷺ فقالت إن أبا سفيان رجل شحيح وإنه لا يعطيني ما يكفيني وبني فهل علي جناح أن آخذ من ماله شيئا قال خذي ما يكفيك وبنيك بالمعروف
Narrated by Bukhari, Book of Sales, chapter on one who lets the practice of the cities proceed according to what is commonly recognized among them, etc., hadith no. 2211, and by Muslim, Book of Judgments, chapter on the case of Hind, hadith no. 1714, from the hadith on sales and hiring, through Hisham bin Urwa, with the same chain.