I asked, "Messenger of Allah, regarding our wives, what may we approach from them and what must we leave?"He replied, "Approach your tilth however you wish. Feed her when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not strike her."
حدثنا ابن بشار حدثنا يحيى بن سعيد
قلت يا رسول الله نساؤنا ما نأتي منهن وما نذر قال ائت حرثك أنى شئت وأطعمها إذا طعمت واكسها إذا اكتسيت ولا تقبح الوجه ولا تضرب