The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "May Allah have mercy on a man who rises in the night to pray and wakes his wife, and if she refuses, sprinkles water on her face. May Allah have mercy on a woman who rises in the night to pray and wakes her husband, and if he refuses, sprinkles water on his face."
حدثنا ابن بشار حدثنا يحيى حدثنا ابن عجلان عن القعقاع عن أبي صالح
قال رسول الله ﷺ رحم الله رجلا قام من الليل فصلى وأيقظ امرأته فإن أبت نضح في وجهها الماء رحم الله امرأة قامت من الليل فصلت وأيقظت زوجها فإن أبى نضحت في وجهه الماء
Its isnad is hasan. Nasai narrated it in Qiyam al-Layl, chapter on encouragement to perform night prayer, no. 1611, from the hadith of Yahya Qattan, with this wording. Ibn Khuzayma graded it sahih, no. 1148, as did Ibn Hibban, no. 646, and Hakim, according to the criteria of Muslim, 1/309, and Dhahabi agreed with him.