I heard the Prophet ﷺ say from the pulpit, "The sons of Hisham bin Mughira have asked my permission to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib. I do not give permission, then I do not give permission, then I do not give permission, unless Ibn Abu Talib wishes to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter. She is a part of me. What disturbs her disturbs me, and what harms her harms me."
حدثنا قتيبة حدثنا الليث عن ابن أبي مليكة
سمعت النبي ﷺ يقول وهو على المنبر إن بني هشام بن المغيرة استأذنوني في أن ينكحوا ابنتهم علي بن أبي طالب فلا آذن ثم لا آذن ثم لا آذن إلا أن يريد ابن أبي طالب أن يطلق ابنتي وينكح ابنتهم فإنها بضعة مني يريبني ما رابها ويؤذيني ما آذاها
Agreed upon. Bukhari narrated it in the Book of Marriage, Chapter on a man defending his daughter out of jealousy and fairness, hadith 5230, and Muslim, hadith 2449, both from Qutayba with this chain.Abdullah bin Ubaydullah bin Abu Mulaykah, narrated by Amr bin Dinar from him, and it was narrated by Bukhari and Muslim.