The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "A previously married woman has more right over herself than her guardian, and a virgin must be asked for her consent regarding herself, and her silence is her consent."
أخبرنا قتيبة قال حدثنا مالك عن عبد الله بن الفضل عن نافع بن جبير بن مطعم
أن رسول الله ﷺ قال الأيم أحق بنفسها من وليها والبكر تستأذن في نفسها وإذنها صماتها
Recorded by Muslim, in the Book of Marriage, chapter on seeking permission from a widow through speech and from a virgin through silence, hadith no. 1421/67, from Qutayba, with the same wording. It is also found in Muwatta (Yahya), 2/524, 525, and in Kubra, no. 5371.3263 - Mahmud bin Ghaylan told us, he said