I got married, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, "Have you gotten married?"I said, "Yes."He asked, "A virgin or a previously married woman?"I said, "A previously married woman."He said, "Why not a virgin, that you might play with her?"Shuba said, I mentioned this to Amr bin Dinar, and he said, "I heard it from Jabir, and what he actually said was, 'Why not a young girl, so that you could play with her and she could play with you?'"
حدثنا عبيد الله بن معاذ حدثنا أبي حدثنا شعبة عن محارب
تزوجت امرأة فقال لي رسول الله ﷺ هل تزوجت قلت نعم قال أبكرا أم ثيبا قلت ثيبا قال فأين أنت من العذارى ولعابها قال شعبة فذكرته لعمرو بن دينار فقال قد سمعته من جابر وإنما قال فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك