The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "When the table is set, let each person eat from what is in front of him and not reach across to what is in front of his companion."
حدثنا محمد بن خلف العسقلاني حدثنا عبيد الله حدثنا عبد الأعلى عن يحيى بن أبي كثير عن عروة بن الزبير
قال رسول الله ﷺ إذا وضعت المائدة فليأكل مما يليه ولا يتناول من بين يدي جليسه
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Its chain of transmission is daif. It was related by Abu Naeem in Hilyat Awliya (3/74), Bayhaqi in Shuab al-Iman (5/84, no. 5865), and Ibn Hibban in Majruhin (2/156) from the hadith of Ubaydullah bin Musa, through this same chain. It will come again at no. 3295.Abdul-Ala bin Ayan is daif, as stated in Taqrib and other works.