We were with the Prophet ﷺ on a military expedition. When we were returning and had drawn close to Madinah, I hurried ahead on a camel of mine that was slow. A rider behind me caught up and prodded my camel with an Anazah he was carrying, and my camel began to move as finely as any camel you could ever see. I turned around, and there was the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.I said, "Messenger of Allah, I am newly married."He asked, "Have you married?"I said, "Yes."He asked, "A virgin or a previously married woman?"I said, "A previously married woman."He said, "Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?"When we arrived and were about to enter Madinah, he said, "Wait until you enter at night, meaning in the evening, so that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it and the woman whose husband has been away may shave."
حدثني يعقوب بن إبراهيم حدثنا هشيم أخبرنا سيار عن الشعبي
كنا مع النبي ﷺ في غزوة فلما قفلنا كنا قريبا من المدينة تعجلت على بعير لي قطوف فلحقني راكب من خلفي فنخس بعيري بعنزة كانت معه فسار بعيري كأحسن ما أنت راء من الإبل فالتفت فإذا أنا برسول الله ﷺ فقلت يا رسول الله إني حديث عهد بعرس قال أتزوجت قلت نعم قال أبكرا أم ثيبا قال قلت بل ثيبا قال فهلا بكرا تلاعبها وتلاعبك قال فلما قدمنا ذهبنا لندخل فقال أمهلوا حتى تدخلوا ليلا أي عشاء لكي تمتشط الشعثة وتستحد المغيبة