The wife of Rifa Qurazi came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "I was married to Rifa, and he divorced me, making my divorce final. Then I married Abdul-Rahman bin Zubayr, but what he has is like the fringe of a garment."He replied, "Do you wish to return to Rifa? No, not until you taste his sweetness and he tastes yours."
جاءت امرأة رفاعة القرظي النبي ﷺ فقالت: كنت عند رفاعة فطلقني، فأبت طلاقي، فتزوجت عبد الرحمن بن الزبير، إنما معه مثل هدبة الثوب فقال: أتريدين أن ترجعي إلى رفاعة، لا، حتى تذوقي عسيلته ويذوق عسيلتك.
Bukhari narrated it in the Book of Testimonies (2639) and Muslim in the Book of Marriage (1433), both from the hadith of Sufyan, from Zuhri, from Urwa, from Ayesha, who related it.In another version, "By Allah, he has nothing on him but something like a fringe," and she took hold of a fringe of her cloak. He said, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ smiled, laughing. Then he related the hadith. In it, Abu Bakr Siddiq was sitting with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, while Khalid bin Saeed bin Aas was sitting at the door of the chamber, not having been given permission to enter. Khalid began calling out to Abu Bakr, "Will you not restrain this woman from speaking so loudly in front of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ?"