The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I saw Paradise and reached out for a cluster of its grapes. Had I taken it, you would have eaten from it as long as the world endures. And I saw the Fire, and I have never seen a sight more terrible than what I saw today. I saw that most of its inhabitants were women."They asked, "Why is that, Messenger of Allah?"He replied, "Because of their ingratitude."Someone asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?"He answered, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and ungrateful for kindness shown to them. If you were to treat one of them well your entire life, then she saw something from you she disliked, she would say, 'I have never seen any good from you.'"
قال رسول الله ﷺ: إني رأيت الجنة فتناولت منها عنقودا، ولو أخذته لأكلتم منه ما بقيت الدنيا، ورأيت النار فلم أر كاليوم منظرا قظ أفظع ورأيت أكثرها النساء قالوا: لم يا رسول الله؟ قال: لكفر هن قيل أيكفرن بالله؟ قال: ويكفرن العشير، ويكفرن الإحسان، لو أحسنت إليها الدهر كله، ثم رأت منك شيئا، قالت: ما رأيت منك خيرا قط.
Malik narrated it in the chapter on the eclipse prayer (2), from Zayd bin Aslam, from Ata bin Yasar, from Abdullah bin Abbas, and he related it in full in the chapter on the eclipse prayer. Bukhari also narrated it in the chapter on marriage (5197), and Muslim in the chapter on the eclipse prayer (907), both of them through the route of Malik, with the same wording, except that Muslim did not give the full text but instead referred back to the hadith of Hafs bin Maysara from Zayd bin Aslam.His saying, "the ashir," means the husband. His saying, "yakfurna," means they deny or reject. This shows that it is permissible to apply the word "kufr" to the denial of one's due rights, without the person thereby becoming an unbeliever in Allah Almighty. See the detailed discussion of this in the book on faith.His saying, "the ankud," refers to a cluster of grapes or similar fruit, that which has formed and clustered together on a single stem. It is also called "the qitf."