He entered with Abdullah bin Umar upon Ibn Mutee, and said, "Peace be upon you."Ibn Mutee replied, "And upon you be peace and the mercy of Allah. Welcome, Abu Abdul-Rahman. Place a cushion for him."Ibn Umar said, "Were it not that I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, 'Three things are not to be refused, milk, a cushion, and perfume,' I would not have sat upon it."
دخل مع عبد الله بن عمر على ابن مطيع، فقال: السلام عليك، فقال: وعليك السلام ورحمة الله، ومرحبا وأهلا بأبي عبد الرحمن ضعوا له وسادة، فقال ابن عمر: لولا أني سمعت رسول الله ﷺ يقول: ثلاث لا ترد: اللبن، ولا الوسادة، ولا الدهن. ما جلست عليها.
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Tirmidhi (2790), Tabarani in Kabir (12/336) -and the wording given here is his- and Bayhaqi in Shuab (5677) all narrated it through the route of Ibn Abu Fudayk, who said, "Abdullah bin Muslim bin Jundab narrated to me, from his father," and he related it.Tirmidhi said, "This is a gharib hadith." Its isnad is hasan because of Abdullah bin Muslim bin Jundab, who is al-Hudhali, al-Madani, the reciter. Abu Zura said, "There is no harm in him," and Ibn Hibban mentioned him in Thiqat. Ibn Hajar likewise graded its isnad hasan in Fath al-Bari (5/209).As for Tirmidhi's description of it as "gharib," this should be understood as referring to the fact that Abdullah bin Muslim bin Jundab was the sole transmitter of it, and his addition does not conflict with what is found in the first hadith.His statement, "the oil," means fragrance.