The Prophet ﷺ said, "He is not one of us who shaves his head, tears his clothes, or raises his voice in wailing during a calamity."
حدثنا يحيى بن آدم حدثنا شريك عن يزيد بن أبي زياد عن عبد الرحمن بن أبي ليلى
عن النبي ﷺ قال ليس منا من حلق وخرق وسلق
Its chain of transmission is sahih, mentioned previously in 19516.