Tufayl bin Amr ad-Dawsi came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "Messenger of Allah, would you like a fortified stronghold and protection?" He was referring to a fortress that belonged to the tribe of Daws during the days of ignorance.The Messenger of Allah ﷺ declined this offer, because of what Allah had reserved for the Ansar.When the Prophet ﷺ migrated to Medina, Tufayl bin Amr migrated to join him, and a man from his tribe migrated with him. They found the climate of Medina disagreeable, and the man fell ill. He grew distressed, took some sharp arrowheads, and cut his finger joints with them. His hands bled until he died.Tufayl bin Amr saw him afterward in a dream, appearing in a fine state, but with his hands covered.Tufayl asked him, "What did your Lord do with you?"He replied, "He forgave me because of my migration to His Prophet ﷺ."Tufayl asked, "Why do I see you covering your hands?"He answered, "I was told, 'We will not restore what you yourself ruined.'"Tufayl related this to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, who then said, "O Allah, forgive his hands as well."
حدثنا سليمان بن حرب حدثنا حماد بن زيد عن الحجاج الصواف عن أبي الزبير
أن الطفيل بن عمرو الدوسي أتى النبي ﷺ فقال يا رسول الله هل لك في حصن حصين ومنعة قال فقال حصن كان لدوس في الجاهلية فأبى ذلك رسول الله ﷺ للذي ذخر الله عز وجل للأنصار فلما هاجر النبي ﷺ إلى المدينة هاجر إليه الطفيل بن عمرو وهاجر معه رجل من قومه فاجتووا المدينة فمرض فجزع فأخذ مشاقص له فقطع بها براجمه فشخبت يداه حتى مات فرآه الطفيل بن عمرو في منامه فرآه في هيئة حسنة ورآه مغطيا يده فقال له ما صنع بك ربك قال غفر لي بهجرتي إلى نبيه ﷺ قال فما لي أراك مغطيا يدك قال قال لي لن نصلح منك ما أفسدت قال فقصها الطفيل على رسول الله ﷺ فقال رسول الله ﷺ اللهم وليديه فاغفر
Its isnad is sahih. Hajjaj Sawwaf is Ibn Abu Uthman, from Maysara, and he is trustworthy and a hadith master. Muslim narrated the hadith (1/108, no. 116), in the Book of Faith, chapter on the evidence that one who kills himself is not thereby rendered an unbeliever. Tahawi also narrated it in Mushkil (1/74), as did Hakim (4/76) and Bayhaqi (8/17).