I came in to visit Abu Musa when he was gravely ill. His wife went to weep, or was about to wail, when Abu Musa said to her, "Have you not heard what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said?"She replied, "Yes," and then fell silent.After Abu Musa died, Yazid said, "I met the woman and asked her, 'What did Abu Musa mean when he said to you, Have you not heard what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said? and then went silent?'"She answered, "The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'He is not one of us who shaves his head, raises his voice in lamentation, or tears his garments in grief.'"
حدثنا عثمان بن أبي شيبة حدثنا جرير عن منصور عن إبراهيم
دخلت على أبي موسى وهو ثقيل فذهبت امرأته لتبكي أو تهم به فقال لها أبو موسى أما سمعت ما قال رسول الله ﷺ قالت بلى قال فسكتت فلما مات أبو موسى قال يزيد لقيت المرأة فقلت لها ما قول أبي موسى لك أما سمعت قول رسول الله ﷺ ثم سكت قالت قال رسول الله ﷺ ليس منا من حلق ومن سلق ومن خرق
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[Sahih] Narrated by Nasai, in the Book of Funerals, Chapter on Tearing the Collar, no: 1866, 1867, from the hadith of Mansur. Ibrahim Nakhai is a mudallis, and Yazid bin Aws is majhul al-hal, so the chain is daif. But the hadith has corroborating narrations in Bukhari, no: 1296, and Muslim, no: 104, and others.